Turning Challenges into Success Before Graduate School
“Breathe. Just breathe.”
That was the loop running through my mind at the beginning of my journey at the University
of Utah. I was tired, unsure of what I wanted to do, and feeling confused. Over my
time here, I realized I just needed time, support, and a few lessons along the way.
But spoiler alert: I stayed. And now, I can say it was the best decision I ever made.
I graduated with my degree in International Studies at 20, not because I had it all figured out, but because I asked for help, made a plan, and believed I could do it. Paying for college is hard, but it’s not impossible when you use the resources around you.
Here are four things to keep in mind during your higher education journey:
- Your "Why" Doesn't Have to Be Perfect, But It Should Be Yours
When I picked the University of Utah, I was stepping way out of my comfort zone. But I visited campus, something clicked, and I felt at home. I loved the energy, the mix of social life and outdoor adventures, and the sense that there was space for me to figure things out. With scholarships that made it financially possible and a strong feeling that this was the next step toward becoming the person I want to be, I knew the U was where I needed to be.
But once you’re here, the real work begins: figuring out why you stay. Your “why” might shift—mine certainly did. Maybe it’s the people you meet, the professors who push you, the career goals you set, or the challenges you overcome. And just like with budgeting, it helps to start with your “why.” Knowing your purpose can guide both your financial decisions and your academic journey. Whatever it is, keep checking in with yourself and stay grounded in what keeps you moving forward.
Tip: Don’t just choose the U, engage with it. Ask yourself what you want out of your time here and use that to guide your decisions. - You Can Change Your Mind (More Than Once)
When I started college, I didn’t know exactly what I wanted to major in. I had vague ideas about leadership, maybe business, maybe policy. Fast forward a few semesters and a few existential crises, and I landed on International Studies with dreams of working in mediation and legal advocacy.
Your major doesn’t define you forever, but it can shape the experiences you pursue. Be open to classes and internships that surprise you—you never know what might click. And since your academic path can impact your financial plan, it’s smart to map out both together. Planning your class schedule goes hand in hand with budgeting for tuition, books, and time to graduation. You don’t have to figure it all out alone. Academic advisors and financial wellness resources are here to help you every step of the way.
Academic Advising Center: https://advising.utah.edu/
- Ask for Help: It's a Strength, Not a Weakness
One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned at the U is that asking for help isn’t a sign of failure—it’s how you move forward. Whether it’s talking to a classmate, opening up to a friend, or leaning on your support system back home or here at the U, asking for help creates space for growth.
Some of the best opportunities I’ve had came from simple conversations. A mentor told me about a scholarship I didn’t know existed. A friend introduced me to someone who became a manager at the job of my dreams. None of that would have happened if I hadn’t spoken up.
Your people, whether that’s family, roommates, mentors, advisors, or the support offices on campus, want to see you succeed. So don’t wait until you’re overwhelmed. Reach out early. Stay curious. And keep asking questions. You never know what doors might open.
Resources:
- University Counseling Center: https://counselingcenter.utah.edu/
- Center for Student Wellness: https://wellness.utah.edu/
- Financial Wellness Center: https://financialwellness.utah.edu/
- Your Story is Worth Sharing (Including the Messy Parts)
I used to think my struggles held me back. Now I know they shaped me into someone stronger, more compassionate, and more resilient. When I first started college, I faced challenges I didn’t expect, especially around finances. Balancing school, work, and the stress of paying for everything felt overwhelming at times. But it was through those moments that I found the Financial Wellness Center.
Whether it’s through leadership roles, working on campus, or just showing up for your classmates, your experiences, both good and bad, can make someone else feel less alone. So if you’re still figuring things out, remember that your struggles don’t disqualify you. They shape you. What you’ve overcome can become your greatest strength. And trust me, this place has room for your story. Mine started with asking for help, and it led me somewhere I truly belong.
Want to talk more about paying for college, budgeting for your degree, or finding financial resources at the U? Stop by the Financial Wellness Center!